Story
Bully is a documentary that graphically depicts peer-to-peer bullying in middle schools across America.
The movie opens with David Long’s disturbing story of his son Tyler’s constant bullying at the hands of his school peers, which led to his suicide at the age of 17. It goes on to track the bullying and abuse endured by three school children over the course of a school year.
Alex Libby, a 12-year-old boy in Iowa, is brutally taunted and physically intimidated on a daily basis while travelling on the school bus. Alex’s victimisation becomes so serious and threatening that the filmmakers begin to fear for his safety. They break with protocol by showing the footage to Alex’s parents, school authorities and the police. Kelby Johnson is a 16-year-old girl in Oklahoma who is bullied and ostracised for being gay. There is also 14-year-old Ja’Maya Jackson from Mississippi. After years of being bullied and victimised, she reacts by taking a loaded gun onto her school bus and threatening her tormentors with it.
The movie also shows a second suicide – that of 11-year-old Ty Smalley. We see his parents attending their son’s funeral and their participation in an anti-bullying organisation called Stand for the Silent.
The documentary shows how bullying is such an entrenched and complex problem that school administrators can’t make their schools a safe environment for students.
Themes
Bullying; suicide; violence in schools
Violence
This movie has scenes of brutal taunting, victimisation, verbal abuse, social ostracism, physical intimidation and associated emotional trauma involving school students. For example:
Sexual references
Bully contains occasional low-level sexual references. For example:
- A teenage girl says that she’s gay, and several other teenage girls say that they’re straight. Another girl says that she’s ‘K-gay’.
- Students say that they have been called ‘faggots’ and ‘fags’.
Alcohol, drugs and other substances
None of concern
Nudity and sexual activity
There is some sexual activity in this movie, including when Kelby holds another girl’s hand. A later scene shows the two girls with their arms wrapped around each other.
Product placement
None of concern
Coarse language
Bully contains some explicit coarse language, put-downs and name-calling.
Ideas to discuss with your children
Bully is a frank and hard-hitting documentary about bullying in American middle and high schools. The movie profiles several victims of bullying over a one-year period, exploring not only the direct impact of bullying on the victim, but also on the victim’s family and community. It is not designed to entertain but to inform, and is too intense for younger teenagers. Even older viewers, particularly those who have themselves been victims of bullying, might find it upsetting. The reactions of some teachers to bullying incidents are particularly disturbing.
The main message from this movie is that bullying is a serious problem of epidemic proportions across American schools, and it destroys young people’s lives. Solving issues of bullying and protecting bullying victims needs a holistic approach by schools, students, parents and the general community. You could talk with your children about whether the problem in Australian schools is as serious.
You could also talk about the problems associated with telling children to ‘stand up for themselves’ without giving them positive ways of doing this. Both Alex and Ja’Maya are told by their parents to stand up for themselves but in neither case do the parents give specific instructions on how their child could do this. In Ja’Maya’s case, this advice results in her taking a loaded gun onto her school bus. She now faces the possibility of years behind bars.
Values in this movie that you could reinforce with your children include resilience in the face of adversity. Tyler’s parents show resilience when they keep going and support their other children through the difficult time after their son’s suicide. Ty’s parents join support groups and find ways of making the general public aware of the devastation caused by peer bullying at school.