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Being a toddler can be lots of fun because there is so much to explore and learn!

Your toddler is becoming more independent, but they still need your help to explore safely and happily. No situation is the same, but here are some tips on how to support your toddler’s exploration.

See things from your toddler's point of view. To support your toddler’s exploration, look at the world from their point of view. Describe what they are seeing, doing and feeling. This will help you share their experience, support their learning about the world, and signal to them that you are close by to keep them safe.

Let them try new things, building their confidence and skills, but stay close by so you can help or comfort them if they need it.

Think ahead. It is natural for your toddler to want to explore. Be aware of your surroundings and take away any dangers. When your toddler gets into a dangerous situation, act quickly to keep them safe.

Use positive attention. As your toddler is exploring, sometimes they will behave in ways that are challenging but not dangerous. Rather than using negative words, try to not focus on these behaviours and redirect your toddler’s attention to a more positive activity. Be quick to give praise and positive attention for the behaviours you want to see more.

Toddlers need to be able to listen and follow your instructions so you can keep them safe. This can be hard for toddlers, especially when they want to show their independence or are absorbed in a favourite activity. Before you give an instruction to your toddler, get their attention. You can do this through eye contact or with gentle touch and give a reason.

Use words that are positive and easy to understand. Give your toddler praise and positive attention for cooperating and following instructions. Being excited and giving lots of praise will help your toddler to feel good about listening.

Model positive behaviour. Your toddler learns by watching and will copy what you do. Show your toddler how to do things like being gentle, speaking kindly, using manners – by doing it yourself!

Give extra support when changing activities and places. Toddlers often find it difficult to move from one activity or place to the next. When your toddler is about to move to a new activity or place, help them by letting them know about the change beforehand. Help them understand the reason for the change and what to expect at the new activity or place.