Story
Tony Stark is Iron Man (Robert Downey Jr). He’s on the verge of a psychological breakdown, suffering from depression and anxiety attacks because of his adventures. He throws himself into his work at the expense of sleep and his relationship with Pepper Potts (Gwyneth Paltrow).
Unfortunately things get much worse for Stark when ‘The Mandarin’ (Ben Kingsley) begins a campaign of global terror and destruction. When Stark publicly threatens him, the Mandarin responds by sending a squad of attack helicopters to Stark’s seafront estate. They destroy the estate and nearly kill Stark and Pepper. When the Mandarin’s attack ends, Stark is stranded in Tennessee in a powerless Iron Man suit.
With the help of a young local boy Harley (Ty Simpkins) and using his own ingenuity and self-reliance, Stark starts a comeback. He discovers the source of the Mandarin’s power and joins with his old ally, James Rhodes (Don Cheadle), to work towards defeating his enemy.
Themes
Superheroes; global annihilation; revenge
Violence
Iron Man 3 contains frequent scenes of intense action violence including acts of terrorism, execution-style murders, mass destruction of buildings and property, and some blood and gore. For example:
Sexual references
This move has occasional low-level sexual references and innuendo. For example:
- Pepper tells Stark, ‘I’m going to take a shower and you’re going to join me’.
- Pepper orders Iron Man to lift his mask and give her a kiss.
- Asked what his latest Iron Man suit is like, Stark says that it is a ‘little pinchy in the gooey bag’.
- Pepper Pots describes a woman as Iron Man’s ‘juicy girlfriend’.
- While struggling with a genetically modified woman who begins to glow white hot, Stark says, ‘I’ve dated hotter chicks than you’.
Alcohol, drugs and other substances
This movie shows some use of substances. For example:
- Stark injects himself with microscopic implants.
- Characters drink socially at bars and parties.
- A woman seems to be under the influence of recreational drugs of some type.
- A man tells Stark that he had a problem with substances (drugs) and that he did undesirable things to get them.
- Pepper is forcibly given an injection through an IV tube.
Nudity and sexual activity
This movie shows some nudity and sexual activity. For example:
- Tony Stark holds a woman’s hand and leads her towards a hotel bedroom. He lies on the bed with the woman and kisses her on lips. The scene cuts to the morning after, and there is a back view of the woman sitting on a chair in her underwear.
- A man kisses Pepper on the lips.
- A beauty pageant features several women wearing brief swimwear. A man holds up a sign with the number 11 written on it.
- Tony Stark walks into a scene where he finds two women in bed together and a man standing next to the bed. The man asks Stark if he ‘fancies either of the two birds’.
Product placement
None of concern
Coarse language
Iron Man 3 has some low-level coarse language and name-calling throughout.
Ideas to discuss with your children
Iron Man 3 is a science fiction action thriller targeting teenagers and adults who are Marvel comic book fans or superhero movie fans. These fans are likely to enjoy some of the funny one-liners and Ben Kingsley’s performance.
This movie is darker and has more action violence, death and destruction than previous Iron Man movies. The M rating is certainly justified. The violence and disturbing scenes make the movie unsuitable for children under 13 years and many aged 13-14 years also. At 130 minutes, it is also a long movie to sit through.
The main message from this movie is that appearances and clothes aren’t important. What’s on the inside of a person is what counts the most.
Values in this movie that you could reinforce with your children include the following:
- Ingenuity and self-reliance: Stark shows these qualities when he must face his enemies without the aid of his Iron Man suit.
- Selflessness: regardless of his selfish, playboy image, Stark risks his life for both friends and strangers many times.
You could also talk with older children about the mixed messages the movie sends about women. Although some of the movie’s female characters are presented as strong and powerful, others have little or no control over events. They’re little more than sex objects controlled by dominant male characters.