Tom and Kate Baker (Steve Martin and Bonnie Hunt) were childhood sweethearts who met at college, married and went on to have an unusually large family of twelve children. They are living quite happily, if somewhat chaotically, in their middle class lifestyle when Tom is invited to Chicago to coach the Stallions. The Stallions were his old football team and the job offer is Tom’s dream come true; however, he has great difficulty persuading the children that the move will be a good one. Kate is very supportive of Tom as she knows what the job means to him but Tom has to promise the family that they will be a much happier and stronger family in their new home. Charlie (Tom Welling), the oldest boy, is particularly unhappy about leaving his girlfriend behind.
The Bakers move into their new house which is in a fairly upmarket neighbourhood. Their new neighbours are not very welcoming. Not long after, Kate learns that her book Cheaper by the Dozen is to be published and she needs to go to New York for a few days. Never having left the children before, Kate is reluctant to leave Tom on his own. Tom insists that he will be able to manage and sends her off with his blessing.
Tom is unprepared for the total chaos that reigns while Kate is away which makes for all kinds of amusing events. The few days turn into two weeks and Tom has increasing difficulty managing his family and devoting time to his career. This gives Tom the opportunity to asses what’s really important to him. The crunch comes when Kate decides to come home early and invites the crew from Oprah to film her ‘one big happy family’, who are not particularly happy on that day.
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There is a lot of comic violence done for laughs, including the following: There are also some other scenes that are not comic:
There is a lot of comic violence done for laughs, including the following:
There are also some other scenes that are not comic:
- Nora and Hank are told that they can’t sleep together at home so Nora moves in with Hank.
- Tom says that ‘twelve kids later they (Tom and Kate) have still got the heat’.
- Tom tells the neighbours that they had twelve kids because ‘he couldn’t keep her off him’.
- Tom needs Nora’s help but she won’t come unless Hank’s allowed to sleep in her room.
- Hank asks Tom and Kate if they will be ‘popping out another one soon’.
- Nora eventually goes home to help and sneaks Hank into her bedroom. In the morning they confront Tom who is angry about the situation.
Alcohol, drugs and other substances
People drink alcohol at a wedding.
Nudity and sexual activity
There is no nudity but Hank and Nora kiss seductively in front of her parents' house.
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This movie contains some mild coarse language and name-calling.
Ideas to discuss with your children
While this film has its funny moments and is quite entertaining for all ages, it has an unreality about it that diminishes its appeal. Such a large family would be quite rare today and the fact that Kate has not aged much since she got married and has given birth to twelve children and found the time to write a book seems most implausible. The film looks at the issues of parenting and whether it’s possible to have a demanding career simultaneously.
The take home message is that two parents with a large family cannot both have a career. You might like to discuss this conclusion as well as other values in the movie such as a strong family bond, loyalty, care and concern. You could also talk about some of the negative elements of family life, such as:
- sibling rivalry
- having fun at another’s expense
- the use of violence to solve conflict
- name-calling, intolerance, disobedience, deceitfulness and harassment.