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Story

Arvilla Holden’s (Jessica Lange) husband Bill has recently died and she is finding it hard to come to terms with the loss of the love of her life. To make matters worse, Bill’s daughter from a previous marriage, Francine (Christine Baranski), arrives on the scene demanding her father’s ashes be returned to California and buried next to her mother. Arvilla had promised Bill to scatter his ashes and refuses her request. Francine however, threatens to sell Arvilla’s house, as she says she has a will (old) proving she is the rightful heir to the property, unless Arvilla agrees to her wishes. Reluctantly Arvilla agrees and sets out on a journey across America with her two Mormon buddies Margene (Kathy Bates) and Carol (Joan Allen) and Bill’s ashes in a jar, in Bill’s old Bonneville convertible.

Themes

Coping with death

Violence

There is some violence in this movie including when Carol gets her handbag stolen at a petrol station by a young couple. A fight follows with all three women getting involved.

Sexual references

None of concern

Alcohol, drugs and other substances

There is some use of substances in this movie, including some drinking and gambling in a casino.

Nudity and sexual activity

None of concern

Product placement

Coca-Cola.

Coarse language

This movie contains some mild coarse language.

Ideas to discuss with your children

Bonneville is a gentle comedy about three women confronting changes in their lives and celebrating life set in stunning scenery across the great American west.

The main messages from this movie are that we should celebrate life and make the most of the time we have. Values in this movie that you might wish to discuss with your children include friendship, love and commitment.

This movie could also give you the opportunity to discuss with your children what happens to a person after death.

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