Why smiling is good for your child
Smiles are the first building blocks of warm, loving and responsive relationships.
These relationships are crucial for your baby’s development. Through these relationships, babies and children learn how to think, understand, communicate and show emotions. In fact, giving and receiving smiles are the first steps your child takes in learning how to be social and have good relationships.
Smiling at your baby is great for your early relationship with your baby. It fosters bonding and attachment, and it helps your baby feel secure and safe.
Also, when your baby gets lots of smiles, it tells your baby a lot about her world – that it’s a safe, secure place where people are happy, friendly and respond to her needs.
You probably can’t help smiling at your baby. And, of course, seeing your baby smile at you makes you feel good too!
Smiles are very important early positive experiences. Smiles teach your child a lot about himself and his world, when he’s too young to understand words.
The science of a smile
Smiles and frowns are the first way your baby relates to you.
When you and your child smile at each other, it releases chemicals in your bodies that make you both feel happy and safe. On the other hand, if a baby is feeling insecure or stressed, there’s an increase in the stress hormones in her body.
Different chemicals interact with a baby’s nervous system in different ways, and even play a role in how the brain grows and develops. For example, high levels of stress hormones can interfere with a baby’s learning and affect his overall development and wellbeing.
No smile is wasted
It’s worth remembering that a simple smile is one building block for your relationship with your child. Your face is where your child looks for reassuring, comforting responses and attention.
Not every single response you give is vital, but the more often you smile at your baby, the better. Each smile your baby sees sends a great message that she’s loved and cherished.