If your child has Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), the good news is that it is manageable. Start by seeking professional help. A health professional can advise you on how best to use behavioural strategies, medication or a combination of the two.
ADHD is not just bad behaviour. Recent research has shown that, in children with ADHD, different parts of the brain don’t communicate with each other in a typical way.
There are three main ways to help manage ADHD in children:
It’s important for you to choose your management strategy or plan based on sound professional advice and what suits your child and family. Management plans should consider all aspects of your child’s life – your child’s needs and responsibilities at home, at school and in other social settings.
Whatever you decide, it’s a good idea to discuss your strategy with your child’s family, carers and teacher. Your child’s specialist might assist in providing information to these people, so that they also understand your child’s diagnosis. This way, your child will get consistent messages about behaviour in all settings – home, school, or other care settings.
Behavioural strategies focus on increasing your child’s appropriate behaviours and decreasing the inappropriate, disruptive ones. You can start learning about and using these strategies even if your child hasn’t received an official diagnosis yet.
Help your child to follow verbal instructions by:
Reduce over-activity and fatigue by:
Keep changes in routine to a minimum. Help your child know what to expect by:
Help your child develop his social skills by:
Praise and encourage your child by:
Specific strategies that can be used in the classroom include:
Stimulant medications are used to treat some children diagnosed with ADHD. Many parents have heard of the stimulant Ritalin. Others include Attenta, dexamphetamine and Concerta.
Stimulants help children with ADHD with their self-control. They help to filter out unnecessary information that can overwhelm a child with ADHD. This helps to focus the child’s attention.
These medications can cause some side effects. One of these is reduced appetite, which can then affect weight gain. The medications can also affect some children’s growth, so treatment needs to be carefully monitored. Most side effects are mild and short-lived. Changes in the dose or timing of medication can help alleviate side effects that don’t go away on their own.
Further research is required to assess the long-term effects of stimulant medication. When used appropriately, however, medication generally leads to better long-term outcomes. Of course, a child prescribed stimulant medication should always be closely monitored by a health professional.
If you’re concerned that your child might have ADHD, the first step is to visit your child’s primary care provider (either her GP or paediatrician). If your child is not already seeing a paediatrician, his GP might refer him to one or to a child psychologist or psychiatrist for further assessment and diagnosis.
If your child is diagnosed with ADHD, you and the specialist can work together to develop a management plan. Usually, behaviour strategies are trialled first, before medication is considered.
Parents of children with ADHD have been found to experience higher stress than parents of children with physical disabilities. For example, going on outings with children with ADHD can be highly stressful. You might feel your parenting is being judged when your child acts inappropriately in public.
You’ll be better placed to help your child if you seek help and support for yourself if needed. You might find it helpful to:
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