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Posted 17/03/2009 11:21:53 PM
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HI us4kerrs

I have now had my son assessed and his IQ turned out to be 140 (In the top 1%) and his reading age at 8 (he has just turned 4).  We are looking into a school which caters for gifted students and the psychlogist has given us insight into how our son thinks, and ways to deal with him (as he is becoming a real handful these days.)

It was well worth the money getting him assessed.

thanks to those with an interest in this subject.

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Posted 22/04/2009 12:45:39 PM
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Hi,

I realise that this is probably a bit belated and I appreciate that you're not really looking to identify your child as gifted, but you might find hearing about other's experiences helpful. There is a great forum on Yahoo.com. (http://au.groups.yahoo.com/group/giftedfamilies/) My dd started reading and basic maths at 2.5 y.o and I have no idea what we're going to do re school - she too starts school in 2010, but because she has a january birthday we're not really in a position to start her early as she'd only just have turned 4 if she was early entered.

I've found the Yahoo forum is a great for finding out you're not alone and what challenges others have had, tips etc.

Good luck!
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Posted 25/04/2009 8:53:15 PM
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HI kittymum,

Thanks for the link to the yahoo group, I've joined and awaiting a reply for membership, look forward to reading about other people's stories with gifted children.

Really appreciate our help, good luck with your daughter too!

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Posted 25/05/2009 10:25:20 AM
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My son's a little young, to be relevant to this topic,  but Mum said she had a similar problem with me in preschool.  Mum said my friends' mothers were concerned to learn that I could read & write before I started kindy at age 3. 

Mum taught my brothers and I as a safety precaution (so that we could write our names, Mum & Dad's name, phone number and address, etc. and it just went from there) in case we ever got lost or separated from her.

As a primary schooler I had an adult reading age, which Mum fostered by joining me up to a book club and allowing me to choose a book a week to read.  I was encouraged to read poetry, write stories & sketch animals, etc., outside of school to maintain interest.

I wouldn't worry too much about your tot being bored at preschool.  I don't recall being bored then (later in school - a little different) - it was too much fun being with friends!

I've heard there's gifted children's associations for most Australian states, including national Mensa, a quick google turned up these sites which may be worth investigating:

http://mensa.org.au/?q=faq/children 

http://www.nswagtc.org.au/ 

Lots of luck to you.

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Posted 24/06/2009 9:05:41 PM
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Hi,

My son knew all the alphabet & numbers when he turned two, and could read common words at three.  He's been diagnosed with autism at two and a half.  I've been advised by the speech therapist that we should dampen that ability (put those alphabet childs games in the bottom of the toy box).  Unfortunately he gets so distracted by words and numbers that we can't move on with the lesson or game until he's exhausted that need to read and recite the letters and numbers.  The point is that he misses out on learning other necessary skills, like social role play and proper circle of conversation, turn taking and other things we take for granted in learning.

Of course, this isn't an issue for your son but I've decided that we should aim for breadth of knowledge rather than depth, and try to expose him to as many experiences as possible to make him a well-rounded person.

Find his passion, avail him to as much assistance as you can and let him change the world with it.

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Posted 30/06/2009 12:19:53 AM
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Every child has different learning capability, so don’t compare the reading capability of your child with others. Even then you feel so, bring some cartoon supported storey books or picture supported text books for him, he will start reading with fast pace because of increased curiosity to know next.

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Posted 2/07/2009 1:29:03 PM
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Hi, Rubianna, I don't think you should worry too much. If he is a slow reader you would worry too. WE are never happy.

When my son was 4.5 years, he had started doing Year 4-5's maths, but he found writing and language was hard. He told me that the numbers were like mucis notes for him. His teacher suggested us to send him to a gifted kids workshop ran by Uni of Sydney. We were not interested. We'd rather him to grow up as a well adjusted person.

By the way, we send our kids to Montessori pre and primary school. They design programs for individual kids to cater their individual learning style and development.

My son is 6 years and at stage 2 of Montessori program (for 6-9 years kids). He doesn't want us to read books to him at night any more because he wants to read BIG books. His maths is still better than his other subjects, but he works hard on the weak ones.

Hope this helps.

Cheers,

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Posted 26/07/2009 9:19:19 PM
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Hi I am at the beginning of asking myself questions about how best to help my daughter (about to turn 4) because I suspect she maybe 'gifted'.  She was a very early talker, is very interested in trying to write words with rapidly improving success, but more than that she understands at a conceptual level well beyond her years.  I have not set out to educate her in any way but I still manage to find myself having discussions about photosynthesis!!!!!  She is very reluctant socially and after 2 years in day care (3 days a week) she still cried every morning when I had to go.  We are not doing day care now but I attend library story times and playgroups in an attempt to help her understand that being with people other than Mum can be fun.  I am in a dilemma to know if I should seek out some sort of kids group that could help to feed her interests - not daycare but a group of Mums and kids who could get together regularly and just be, just talk about common interests, I guess like a playgroup for advanced toddlers. I am finding that the playgroups in my area have younger kids and offer little interest to my daughter.  In addition, because her birthday is not until September she will not go to prep until 2011.
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Hi Rubianna..i was going throgh some old posts and noticed yours...woh..i must say hats off to you..my son is 20 month and is not interested in reading, he sure likes images...and can identify images when i pinpoint at them..however your son is too good...i think yiu shoudl not worry..my sis was like your son..she was so knolwledgeable that the teachers and head deicided to move her directly from Yr 1 class to Yr 2, which does her wonder as she was able to keep up and "compete" with her mates.i think you should talk to the school head when you admit your son, else as you say your son woudl be too intelligent and woudl simply switched off as you say...

you bub is surely gifted....tell us how it goes....

*****Han-Mum of  3years Ryan and 4month old Dylan*****

 

 

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Posted 24/09/2009 4:30:01 PM
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Hi,

Just wanted to tell you that my little girl showed the same signs and we had to talk to teachers to get her advanced work in class. Also she has Aspergers which means she socially struggles but extremely advanced. So I know how you feel exactly. I engage her with online advanced Literacy and maths services.

I recommend you have a look at www.intrepica.com.au for literacy and other sites for maths, the kids can access the sites on class as well so they have access to it at home.

Good luck

Mahgan
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