When you feel you might hurt your child

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As parents, sometimes we feel tested to the limits of our ability and control.

Sometimes we feel out of control. Sometimes we have personal problems that distract us from caring properly for our children.

This can result in children being neglected or abused. These are difficult subjects to talk about, but sadly the problems of child neglect and abuse are not uncommon. These problems affect children and families from all backgrounds, and occur for many different reasons.

Experiences of child neglect and abuse can have devastating consequences for children and young people, including severe emotional, social and psychological problems.

Sufferers of child abuse can experience poor self-esteem, learning difficulties and behavioural problems.

Children have a right to be safe and protected. As a parent, it is your responsibility to recognise when you need help before any harm is done.

If you feel you may hurt, or have hurt your child, it is important that you seek immediate assistance.

STOP what you are doing.
THINK about how you and your child are affected by what is happening.
DO something to change the situation.
GET SUPPORT to make the changes.

Seeking support and assistance can take courage. Taking this step, however, is critical for you and your child.

Seeking support and assistance reflects:

•  your love for your child 
  
•  your ability to appreciate there is a problem 
  
•  your desire for things to be different for your family 
  
•  your commitment to working towards changing things for the better.

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