By age four or five, your preschooler might have one or two special friends. Play starts to unlock the social skills your child will use throughout life, like how to get along with friends. It also helps children learn about themselves and where they fit in the world.


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When you play together, your child is watching what you do. So you can use your own behaviour as a role model to guide your child.
What you do is often much more important than what you say. You are showing your child how to play cooperatively, take turns and share. As you play, you can encourage your child by asking questions and exploring different ways of doing things. And while you might think you’re just spending a lovely afternoon together, your child is actually learning many different skills.
Your child’s creativity will best develop when you give your child lots of freedom. At this age, children might even bend the rules a bit as they play. Try to step back and let them make their own fun. You can be on hand to help, comment and join in when invited.
Books open up amazing new worlds and experiences. Stories help your child improve speech, imagination and even counting skills. Reading books together can become a much loved ritual.
The best books are those that stand up to reading over and over, night after night. Books with imaginative illustrations are great at this age as you can weave new stories around the pictures. As they are developing their sense of humour, preschoolers love books with a ridiculous story, even if they’re not sure the story is actually true. Pop-up books are still full of fun surprises at this age.
Your local library or bookshop might be able to recommend some classic picture books.
Read more about the importance of reading stories to your child.
To release emotions and express feelings
Explore some more great ‘feeling’ play ideas.
To enhance imagination and creativity
Discover other imagination games.
To encourage thinking
Find some other great thinking games.
To help with reading and identifying numbers
Read more about activities to promote literacy.
By Raising Children Network
Playtime can be a time for learning and developing self-esteem for preschoolers.
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