Young children love to explore. They want to be where the action is and to do what you're doing. But they really don't understand danger, and that makes it hard to keep them safe. While it is very important for you to show your child how to behave around traffic, and to explain the road rules over and over again, children under 10 just aren't capable of keeping themselves safe on their own – no matter how well they seem to learn. An adult needs to keep an active watch on them at all times when around cars.
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Safety when getting in and out of the car
When is my child ready to navigate roads on his own?
Toddlers tend to move quietly and quickly. They do not realise that cars are dangerous. And they get highly absorbed by whatever they are doing, including chasing a ball behind a car. They often don’t stop if you ask them to.
This is why so many toddlers are hit by cars in their own yards or driveway. Even older children get hurt this way. One in 10 children who is hit by a car is in their own driveway at the time. Toddlers under two are most at risk.
Things you can do to prevent driveway accidents:
Car parks are similar to driveways in that reversing drivers find it very difficult to see small children behind their car.
Children learn by repeating the same experience often. If you always use the kerbside, rear passenger door when putting your baby into his restraint, your child will get used to always getting in and out of this door. Later, when your child is a toddler and preschooler and is more independent, he will be used to getting in and out of the car through the safest door – the one away from traffic.
If you have a baby and a toddler, keep your toddler safe inside the car while you deal with the baby first. Once out of the car, hold hands with your child and together work out where cars could come from before you walk away from the car. When returning to the car, help the toddler in first as the baby is less likely to move out of sight.
As your child becomes a toddler, and later a preschooler, you are likely to be out walking and crossing roads more and more. Even quiet side streets on the way to the local park, a friend's or the shop can be dangerous. So too can slow-moving cars. This is the time for adults to be really aware of road safety. Children learn by example. They will start to learn good road-safety habits if you always cross at a crossing, if there is one, or at the corner. Teach them to use the lights and pedestrian crossings, to look both ways and to stop to check that there are no cars coming out of driveways. Talk about why you're doing what you're doing: explain why you're stopping at the crossing, looking both ways and so on.
No matter how well they may seem to know the rules, children up to 10 or so need active adult supervision when they're anywhere near traffic. They are just not capable of being responsible for their own safety.
Tips for walking and crossing roads:
It is essential to hold a toddler’s hand wherever there is traffic or where cars could be, especially where there is:
Children learn by repeating the same experience often. If you always use the kerbside, rear passenger door when putting your baby into his restraint, your child will get used to always getting in and out of this door. Later, when your child is a toddler and preschooler and is more independent, he will be used to getting in and out of the car through the safest door – the one away from traffic.
If you have a baby and a toddler, keep your toddler safe inside the car while you deal with the baby first. Once out of the car, hold hands with your child and together work out where cars could come from before you walk away from the car. When returning to the car, help the toddler in first as the baby is less likely to move out of sight.
Children under 10 need to be with an adult when crossing roads or walking to schools, parks, friends’ homes and shops.
This is the case even if they seem to know all the road safety rules or seem to cross roads sensibly when they're with you. Even children who can recite all the safety rules won't necessarily remember to follow them. They can easily daydream while crossing a road without an adult and are likely to forget to concentrate on the traffic when they are with friends.
By around the age of 10, many children have developed the skills required to judge traffic reliably. This includes being able to locate sounds, judge speed or notice oncoming traffic out of the corners of their eyes. Your child is ready to navigate roads safely when he:
Cross, D.S., & Hall, M.R. (2005). Child pedestrian safety: The role of behavioural science. Medical Journal of Australia, 182, 318-319.