Television, movies, computer games and the internet can be a positive influence on your child, especially if you get involved when your child is using them. But it can be hard to pick the good from the bad when it comes to media. Here are some ideas to help you choose.

There are many negative messages about media, and how viewing and interacting with it might harm your child.
In fact, research shows that children can benefit from media. The benefits depend on how old your child is, and what kind and quality of media your child is using.
For children under two, there are no benefits from any media. For children aged 2-8, carefully chosen TV programs, movies and computer games offer many developmental and social benefits. In addition to these media, social networking sites can have social benefits for teenagers.
For younger children, the developmental benefits of media include developing:
For older children, there are:
Teenagers can develop their:
Deciding whether a TV program, movie, computer game or website is good quality can be tricky. You can be guided by the age classification, and you can use your own judgment of whether it’s high quality, challenging and well made. Other parents and your child’s teachers can also be a useful source of information about quality media that’s also good for kids.
Content that has a good story that doesn’t depend on violence or action for its entertainment value is always worth looking for. But content that includes violence or action mixed with drama and good narrative can be insightful and educational. For example, older children might benefit from watching a movie such as Schindler’s List.
TV programs and movies that give your child the chance to explore places, animals, people, ideas, issues and cultures he couldn’t see or connect with otherwise can inspire him to try new activities and engage in new ideas. This can be done through playing, creating something, or finding out more about a topic.
Movies or TV programs with good role models can also positively influence your child.
Software and websites that get children drawing pictures or making up stories or rhymes can foster creativity. For preschoolers especially, this can also be a way for them to express ideas and feelings. Computer games that give young children simple choices – choosing a character or finding a background for a picture – can also help your child make creative decisions.
Interactive computer games and websites can help your child learn more effectively.
Using avatars or games can give older children and teenagers the opportunity to develop their identity by enabling them to ‘try on’ different physical and psychological characteristics.
Content developed in collaboration with Lee Burton, independent consultant.
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