
Your preschooler will probably:
By four, your child is likely to delve less into the imaginary world and want to know more about the real world. He will enjoy pretend play, dressing up as an adult, being mummy or daddy, a doctor or an explorer, and trying out roles to help make sense of the real world.
At five, your child enjoys playing with other children and joining in games with clear rules. This includes creating elaborate pretend games with other children.
Any chance to draw, paint, paste, sing or dance will probably be met with great enthusiasm. Three-year-olds aren't likely to have the coordination or hand control to manage much more than a scribble or splashes of paint on butcher’s paper, but they love the process of creating.
A four-year-old wields a pencil more confidently and can draw a figure with a body, head, arms and legs. These creative possibilities may increase with the start of kindergarten or day care.
Between five and six years, your child's coordination and ability to use his hands develops fully, making it easier to express thoughts and ideas and to draw complex shapes such as diamonds, triangles and stars. Around this time, your child might start to use art to help tell stories and to show events and emotions.
Your child's imagination and creativity are blossoming at this age, and there are many ideas to enhance this through play. You can try:
If you’re shopping for toys, look for things he can use to create games and toys, not just those that come complete from the shop with their own structured play expectations.
Your child’s creativity will best develop if he is given lots of room to do his own thing, as long as he is safe. Try to step back and let him make his own fun with you on hand to help and comment on his activities.
All children develop at their own pace. If you're concerned about any aspect of your child's development, it is a good idea to visit your health professional.
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